After no blogging for months, I’ve decided to state my case and post some facts on here of who the obsessed fan(s) really are!!!
For the past two years Evelien and WarmHappyCat of Dominians United have been harassing me about my feelings for Dominic Monaghan. To me they seem to be obsessed with my feelings for him and now with me. I also think they are obsessed with him.
How about some cold hard evidence to start us off???
The image below is an email I received from MyLife stating that Evelien was looking for me outside of Twitter. Notice that the date is from December 17, 2013
This image is the most current one I received via email from MyLife…damn two hours ago??? She’s fucking persistent!
More evidence!!! If you keep up-to-date with Dom’s tweets, you know that it’s a known fact that he is VERY single aka no girlfriend. But, I have gotten harassment about that too. I was harassed via Skype! Here’s the conversation between me and Ashley Alaina claiming she is dating Dominic Monaghan. *coughs* Bullshit!!!
Now this is an obsessed fan:
[10:38:53 AM] ashes: and although we are still best friends, there is a love there.
[10:39:11 AM] ashes: He knows that you and I are talking right now.
[10:39:15 AM] ashes: he’s okay with it.
[10:39:50 AM] Meredith McLarty: You’re still with him?
[10:39:52 AM] ashes: I really hope that didn’t break your heart. I care for him as well.
[10:39:57 AM] ashes: Yes… we are still together.
[10:40:10 AM] ashes: It went from dating… he was still seeing other people..
[10:40:32 AM] ashes: and now that he’s back, we’ve agreed to be monogamous.
[10:41:01 AM] ashes: and no.. those asshole girls don’t know.
[10:41:08 AM] ashes: I don’t want anyone to know.
[10:41:15 AM] ashes: at first someone tried to sell the story to TMZ
[10:41:32 AM] ashes: My ex was just like yours…
[10:41:36 AM] ashes: abusive as all hell…
[10:42:22 AM] ashes: but all of that aside…
[10:42:38 AM] ashes: I just want you to know that I understand.. and I am SO sorry that you’ve had to deal with so much.
[10:42:54 AM] ashes: and I am sorry for breaking your heart. That’s not my intention
[10:43:09 AM] ashes: What I want is to be your friend and to have your back.
[10:43:29 AM] ashes: mother to mother, I get it. you’ve been through hell.
[10:43:40 AM] ashes: I am not as strong as you.
[10:44:25 AM] ashes: also, if you think i’m talking out of my ass and making bullshit up, I understand that too.
[10:44:54 AM] ashes: there is a girl that is really fucking with him, Meredith.
[10:44:56 AM] Meredith McLarty: I’m sure there are other guys out there for you.
[10:45:22 AM] ashes: There are other guys out there for me… But I am happy to be in a loving relationship with my best friend.
[10:45:33 AM] ashes: This isn’t about my relationship though.
[10:45:51 AM] ashes: There is someone out there who is doing horrible things to him.
[10:46:11 AM] Meredith McLarty: I don’t like that you are with him.
[10:46:12 AM] ashes: and I want to punch her in her stupid face. He is having a hard time sleeping at night because of it.
[10:46:27 AM] Meredith McLarty: Break it off.
[10:46:31 AM] ashes: I’m sorry you don’t like it, but it’s the truth and I didn’t want to lie to you
[10:46:44 AM] ashes: why would I do that?
[10:47:18 AM] ashes: Listen, I have to take my mother for her chemo. I’ll talk to you later. I thought this would have gone a lot better.
[10:47:23 AM] ashes: I’ll let him know what you had to say.
[10:47:32 AM] Meredith McLarty: I care about him in a way you can’t. I know how to make him happy.
[10:47:32 AM] ashes: I was trying to be on your side.
[10:47:56 AM] ashes: You don’t know me. You don’t know our relationship. I am not judging you. Please don’t judge me.
[10:48:04 AM] Meredith McLarty: I doubt you’re dating him.
[10:48:24 AM] Meredith McLarty: That’s a load of crap.
[10:48:29 AM] ashes: I can send you whatever photos of us you want.
[10:49:10 AM] ashes: Listen, I am talking with you because I am worried about what they’re going to do to you, and I’m worried about him.
[10:49:30 AM] ashes: But if this is how it’ll be… trying to prove to you that we’re happy… fuck it.
[10:49:39 AM] Meredith McLarty: I worry about him to.
[10:50:05 AM] ashes: I have to take my mom to her appointment. Lets talk later
[10:50:08 AM] ashes: I’m sorry again
[11:08:17 AM] ashes: I’m on my phone
[11:08:51 AM] ashes: Listen, you cannot force someone to love you.
[11:09:07 AM] ashes: And no, I won’t “break it off”, but I’ll let him read this.
[11:09:27 AM] ashes: I contacted you for many reasons. One was to reach out because I know you’ve been through hell.
[11:09:47 AM] ashes: The other is to explain what this one girl from Austria is doing.
[11:10:09 AM] Meredith McLarty: You don’t understand how I feel about him.
[11:10:10 AM] ashes: Apparently it’s not going to happen, but at least I tried.
[11:10:47 AM] ashes: From what I’ve read, I understand that you love him with all that you have.
[11:10:55 AM] ashes: All that you are.
[11:11:25 AM] ashes: And believe me… I understand that love. That love that takes over you.
[11:11:25 AM] Meredith McLarty: Of course. I have for 12 years. I can’t stop loving someone I meant to be with.
[11:11:47 AM] ashes: I totally understand that. I’m not telling you to stop loving him.
[11:11:52 AM] ashes: That’s impossible.
[11:12:02 AM] ashes: I get it. Trust me, I do.
[11:12:14 AM] ashes: But I wanted to be truthful with you.
[11:12:15 AM] Meredith McLarty: I came to L.A. partly to meet him.
[11:12:38 AM] Meredith McLarty: Now I wanna go back home.
[11:12:59 AM] ashes: You’re doing great in LA though, right?
[11:13:13 AM] ashes: You’re happy and you’re supporting yourself. You have a job?
[11:13:14 AM] Meredith McLarty: No. I’m barely making it by.
[11:13:27 AM] ashes: Don’t give up because of a man. You can do it.
[11:14:05 AM] ashes: It’s hard. LA is a tough place to live.
[11:14:11 AM] Meredith McLarty: Did he tell you to talk to me to tell me to stop bothering him?
[11:14:27 AM] ashes: No. I told him I was going to talk to you.
[11:14:47 AM] Meredith McLarty: What did he say?
[11:15:07 AM] ashes: He said he didn’t think it would help, and that he’s worried you’ll hurt me.
[11:15:29 AM] ashes: He is at the doctors office right now.
[11:16:11 AM] ashes: My main concern is you. I’m worried about you. I don’t want you to hurt yourself because of this. As I said before, you can’t force someone to love you.
[11:16:15 AM] Meredith McLarty: I’m not going to hurt anyone.
[11:16:23 AM] ashes: And you my dear… You have a big heart.
[11:16:30 AM] ashes: Ok good.
[11:16:51 AM] Meredith McLarty: Why is he at the doctor’s?
[11:17:00 AM] ashes: Even though I know you hate me, I’m still here for you.
[11:17:27 AM] Meredith McLarty: I don’t hate you. I’m angry you’re with him.
[11:17:28 AM] ashes: I can’t talk about medical stuff.
[11:17:53 AM] ashes: I really am sorry you’re angry. I don’t want you to hurt at all. Ever.
[11:18:22 AM] ashes: I wish I could help you. I really do. But if you were in my position you wouldn’t break up with him because another girl is in love with him.
[11:19:10 AM] ashes: Just please don’t sell this to some shit tabloid.
[11:19:34 AM] ashes: I messaged you hoping I could trust you. I believe you are a loving and sweet person.
[11:19:55 AM] ashes: We are both mothers. We both have that love.
[11:20:46 AM] Meredith McLarty: I am, but I’m not sure how to feel about all this.
[11:20:58 AM] ashes: Take time to process it.
[11:21:42 AM] ashes: I’m here for you though… Not sure if that means anything.
[11:21:45 AM] Meredith McLarty: How old are you? Just out of curiosity.
[11:21:54 AM] ashes: 29
[11:22:10 AM] ashes: And Meredith… He is happy. We are happy.
[11:22:20 AM] ashes: I would never hurt him. Ever.
[11:23:30 AM] Meredith McLarty: Did he tell you to say all this?
[11:23:33 AM] ashes: I’m taking care of my mother and my daughter alone… I have a degree and I make a good living. As you said before, he’s a person first.
[11:23:40 AM] ashes: To say what?
[11:24:07 AM] Meredith McLarty: To tell me that you and him are dating.
[11:24:55 AM] ashes: No, I told him I was going to talk to you. He told me it was pointless and he is worried you’ll hurt me if you see us together.
[11:25:11 AM] ashes: To be honest, that does scare me.
[11:25:21 AM] ashes: But then I read about your life on your blog.
[11:25:30 AM] ashes: I don’t think you would ever do anything like that.
[11:26:30 AM] Meredith McLarty: I would hurt myself before I’d hurt anyone else.
[11:26:56 AM] ashes: No no no. You are a mother and you are too good to do that. This world needs you.
[11:27:12 AM] Meredith McLarty: No it doesn’t.
[11:27:35 AM] ashes: Yes it does. You have so much love in your heart and you are a powerful woman.
[11:27:45 AM] ashes: God will bless you.
[11:27:47 AM] Meredith McLarty: That’s bullshit.
[11:28:02 AM] ashes: I don’t think so.
[11:28:43 AM] ashes: Listen… Take some time to process everything. I am here to talk and I am here to be your friend if you can handle that.
[11:29:00 AM] ashes: But please… Don’t even think about hurting yourself.
[11:29:11 AM] Meredith McLarty: Honestly, I won’t be happy unless I have Dom. I have no reason to live anymore if I can’t.
[11:29:15 AM] ashes: I will drive out there right now just to hug you and make sure you’re safe.
[11:29:33 AM] Meredith McLarty: No!!!
[11:29:35 AM] ashes: How do you even know that?
[11:30:04 AM] ashes: You haven’t tried to be happy without him. Just your dick of an ex.
[11:30:34 AM] ashes: And he doesn’t count. He isn’t human. He’s a fucking cunt.
[11:31:06 AM] ashes: Happiness comes from within. No man will ever make you happy if you’re not happy with yourself.
[11:31:20 AM] ashes: And you have so much love to give.
[11:31:25 AM] Meredith McLarty: I have tried. I can’t stop thinking about him. I’m happy just when I get to see a picture. I wondered for years why I couldn’t stop thinking of him.
[11:31:42 AM] ashes: Maybe it was to help you cope at first?
[11:31:52 AM] ashes: Then after a while it grew into a deep love.
[11:32:05 AM] Meredith McLarty: I am so sad without him. People say I’m obsessed, but I know I’m not.
[11:32:21 AM] ashes: Anyone in love is a bit obsessed. Let’s be honest.
[11:32:32 AM] Meredith McLarty: I’m not.
[11:32:46 AM] Meredith McLarty: I can’t help how I feel.
[11:32:50 AM] ashes: But to want us to break up because you love him? That’s not going to make him happy.
[11:32:56 AM] ashes: I understand. Neither can I.
[11:33:11 AM] ashes: None of us can. We love and follow our truth.
[11:33:27 AM] ashes: I will never tell you to stop loving him.
[11:34:40 AM] Meredith McLarty: Why can’t he talk to me and tell me this himself?
[11:34:59 AM] ashes: Do you really want me to answer that? I think you know why.
[11:35:16 AM] ashes: You do know why.
[11:35:29 AM] ashes: He could have talked to you years ago. He didn’t. Why?
[11:35:52 AM] Meredith McLarty: I didn’t find him until last year.
[11:36:06 AM] ashes: Why does he block your accounts?
[11:36:24 AM] ashes: It’s not because of the Twitter bitches.
[11:36:33 AM] ashes: They don’t make him dislike you.
[11:36:53 AM] ashes: You have been very persistent. That’s a bit scary for him.
[11:37:42 AM] Meredith McLarty: I think he thinks I only want his money or that I’m not being honest about how I truly feel. I try to tell him. I don’t mean to may it look as if I am hurting him.
[11:37:47 AM] ashes: You don’t know him, but you feel like you do… You love him and you’ve never met him. He has a lot of girls (and guys) who have done awful stuff in the past.
[11:37:59 AM] ashes: No… That’s not it.
[11:38:09 AM] ashes: He doesn’t have those feelings for you.
[11:38:15 AM] Meredith McLarty: I won’t hurt him. I care too deeply for him.
[11:38:57 AM] Meredith McLarty: I’ve tried to ask him to follow me so we could talk personally and I could tell him everything about me.
[11:39:13 AM] ashes: This has gone on for a while now… He knows about you. He knows what you want and how much you love him.
[11:39:32 AM] ashes: And he doesn’t want that.
[11:39:55 AM] ashes: I’m sorry. I don’t want to tell you that.
[11:40:27 AM] ashes: Again, you can’t force him.
[11:40:53 AM] ashes: You can love him, but you can’t expect anything in return.
[11:41:18 AM] Meredith McLarty: Not trying to. I’m just trying to show him who I really am. I’m not a bad person at all.
[11:41:53 AM] Meredith McLarty: I know he doesn’t want me to bother him at all. So I won’t.
[11:42:17 AM] ashes: I will let him know that, ok? I’ve told him the hell you went through with your ex…
[11:42:33 AM] Meredith McLarty: Okay.
[11:42:43 AM] ashes: But still… Your life seems to revolve around him at this point. You should make it about you! You’re in LA!
[11:42:58 AM] ashes: Embrace it. Love yourself. Work. Be happy.
[11:43:04 AM] Meredith McLarty: Not for much longer.
[11:43:09 AM] ashes: I’ll do whatever I can to support you.
[11:43:48 AM] Meredith McLarty: I’m leaving today.
[11:43:54 AM] ashes: Well… Whatever you decide, I’m here for you.
[11:44:16 AM] Meredith McLarty: There’s only one way I can stop bothering him.
[11:44:16 AM] ashes: It makes me sad that you’re leaving just because of him. Because of our relationship.
[11:44:58 AM] ashes: I think you’ve got such determination… You can really do some awesome stuff with your life in LA.
[11:45:06 AM] Meredith McLarty: This world doesn’t need me anymore. I have no strength left now.
[11:45:22 AM] ashes: stop being dramatic. You know that’s bullshit.
[11:45:31 AM] ashes: Hold your head up high.
[11:45:37 AM] Meredith McLarty: It’s true. I’m done.
[11:46:01 AM] ashes: I swear I will call the hostel or something. Do not try to hurt yourself.
[11:46:14 AM] ashes: I will leave now. I’m not kidding.
[11:46:31 AM] ashes: Your children need you. They do. You may not have them, but they love you.
[11:46:59 AM] ashes: And one day you may. Please. At least live for them. Pull through this. Make a life for yourself.
[11:47:01 AM] Meredith McLarty: I can’t.
[11:47:03 AM] Meredith McLarty: No.
[11:47:07 AM] ashes: You are anything but weak.
[11:47:24 AM] ashes: Meredith, please?
[11:47:33 AM] ashes: That’s the last time I will ask.
[11:47:34 AM] Meredith McLarty: See, neither of you know me.
[11:47:49 AM] ashes: Again, I know what I’ve read.
[11:48:06 AM] Meredith McLarty: Tell Dom, I’ll always love him.
[11:48:23 AM] ashes: Ok.
[11:48:51 AM] ashes: Write a letter to your children.
[11:49:09 AM] Meredith McLarty: And that’s it’s not his fault I’m gonna do this.
[11:49:19 AM] ashes: I know that and he knows that.
[11:49:25 AM] ashes: I don’t agree with it.
[11:49:29 AM] ashes: I think it’s selfish.
[11:49:34 AM] ashes: But it’s your life.
[11:50:05 AM] Meredith McLarty: It doesn’t matter.
[11:50:11 AM] ashes: Do you want me to call, or was that a mistake?
[11:50:31 AM] Meredith McLarty: A mistake. Sorry.
[11:50:45 AM] ashes: No worries. If it’ll help we can talk.
[11:50:57 AM] Meredith McLarty: No.
[11:51:00 AM] ashes: Ok.
[11:51:07 AM] Meredith McLarty: I only trust Dom now.
[11:51:17 AM] ashes: I see.
[11:51:44 AM] Meredith McLarty: Tell him not to feel guilty.
[11:51:57 AM] Meredith McLarty: It’ll all be over soon.
[11:51:58 AM] ashes: I don’t need to tell him that.
[11:52:06 AM] ashes: This is all you.
[11:52:14 AM] ashes: It’s not his fault. It isn’t mine.
[11:52:19 AM] ashes: This is your choice.
[11:52:24 AM] ashes: Your mistake.
[11:52:48 AM] Meredith McLarty: I know. I need to stop bothering him though. This is the only way.
[11:53:14 AM] ashes: Or you can just get offline and live your life
[11:54:09 AM] Meredith McLarty: Please send him these messages.
[11:55:32 AM] ashes: I will. I can’t force him to read it though.
[11:59:50 AM] ashes: I’ve got to call the hostel Meredith. I have to call 911. I’m sorry.
[12:00:14 PM] ashes: I won’t sit back as you do this.
[12:02:47 PM] Meredith McLarty: Don’t you dare.
[12:03:27 PM] ashes: Do you think I can seriously just be ok with you ending your life?!?!
[12:03:32 PM] ashes: Life is precious!!!
[12:03:43 PM] ashes: It is an insult! I will not sit back.
[12:51:29 PM] ashes: I’m glad you’re not going through with it. I really do think you’re going to do great things.
[1:00:44 PM] ashes: He just called me 20 minutes ago…
[1:01:09 PM] ashes: And I’m sorry, but he doesn’t want to read these messages.
[2:57:01 PM] ashes: I just showed him your lovely blog post. You really don’t want to know what he had to say… But we did have a laugh!!
[2:58:39 PM] ashes: I’m too young and immature for him (him being a man you’ve never met and don’t know). And ya, I’ll take care of my family… Because I have custody of my child. SO immature!!!
[3:00:51 PM] ashes: Anyway, here’s a heads up for you… His lawyers have all of your info. Screen shots, photos (nice one of you disgustingly naked in a public toilet. So classy.) they have it all. Want to know why? Because he is sick and tired of your disrespectful shit and doesn’t give a shit about you. He doesn’t know you, nor does he want to. If you ever “bump” into him, there is a plan in place to remove you from the situation.
[3:01:23 PM] Meredith McLarty: Whatever.
[3:01:27 PM] ashes: I tried to be nice Meredith, but I don’t appreciate disrespectful nonsense. You’re just a jealous bully.
[3:01:39 PM] ashes: So now you’ve got two people against you.
[3:01:52 PM] ashes: The man you “love” and his girlfriend.
[3:02:05 PM] ashes: And we don’t tolerate shit like this. 🙂
[3:02:26 PM] ashes: You just made a HUGE mistake.
[3:02:37 PM] ashes: And honestly, I pity you.
[3:02:44 PM] ashes: I wish I could have helped.
[3:03:03 PM] Meredith McLarty: I think you’re lying about being with him.
[3:03:36 PM] ashes:
[3:04:04 PM] ashes:
[3:04:21 PM] ashes: That was before we went to bed. Do those hands look familiar?
[3:04:43 PM] ashes: I can send more, but you’re crazy enough to use them and say you’re with him.
[3:05:07 PM] ashes: I mean, should I send you photos of him rubbing my feet while we watch the match?
[3:05:14 PM] ashes: Or photos of us in bed?
[3:05:14 PM] Meredith McLarty: You don’t have any with him and your face?
[3:05:16 PM] ashes: No.
[3:05:27 PM] ashes: The first one I sent you is the two of us.
[3:05:37 PM] ashes: I’m not sending any of us in bed.
[3:05:55 PM] Meredith McLarty: I mean of your faces together.
[3:06:00 PM] ashes: LOOK UP.
[3:06:04 PM] ashes: I sent you one.
[3:06:12 PM] Meredith McLarty: Oh okay.
[3:06:16 PM] ashes:
[3:06:18 PM] ashes: Right there.
[3:06:47 PM] ashes: That was taken during a vacation together.
[3:06:48 PM] Meredith McLarty: I’m on my phone. It won’t let me view it.
[3:07:19 PM] Meredith McLarty: I still think you’re with the wrong man.
[3:07:22 PM] ashes: I am not sending anymore “proof”. I just don’t want you to cope by thinking I’m telling lies.
[3:07:38 PM] ashes: I don’t care what you think. Neither does he. We are happy Meredith.
[3:08:08 PM] ashes: He doesn’t want to even think about you let alone be with you. That’s the truth and I hate to say it. I don’t want to tell you how he feels. It’ll break you.
[3:08:34 PM] ashes: Listen. I was really trying to be nice and have your back.
[3:08:44 PM] ashes: You decided to take that and try to hurt us with it.
[3:09:23 PM] ashes: The thing is… You can’t hurt us. We don’t care about your opinion. We are happy and that’s all that matters.
[3:09:39 PM] ashes: And if you loved him so much, you wouldn’t do things like this to hurt him.
[3:10:24 PM] Meredith McLarty: I’m not trying to hurt him. You are hurting me by saying these things.
[3:10:29 PM] ashes: Should I call him back and tell him that you want us to break up? Will that make the man you love happy?
[3:10:40 PM] ashes: Look at what you wrote about me!
[3:10:47 PM] ashes: He is pissed!
[3:10:57 PM] Meredith McLarty: Whatever.
[3:11:06 PM] ashes: You took my kindness and tried to fuck me over with it.
[3:11:21 PM] ashes: Just because I’m kind does not mean I’m weak.
[3:11:22 PM] Meredith McLarty: I care about you hurting him.
[3:11:43 PM] ashes: But Meredith… You trying to hurt me hurts him! Do you not see that?!
[3:11:52 PM] Meredith McLarty: You don’t know how to make him happy.
[3:12:09 PM] ashes: How do you even know that! This is a man you’ve never met!
[3:12:33 PM] Meredith McLarty: I just know. I don’t need to prove anything.
[3:12:49 PM] ashes: And trust me. He is happy. This is a man who has many deep seeded problems and pain, and he wants to commit to our relationship.
[3:13:17 PM] ashes: You need to step back Meredith.
[3:13:59 PM] ashes: You don’t know a single thing about me. You are acting just like those girls on Twitter. You are judging me for attention or to cope.
[3:14:39 PM] ashes: So listen. If you want to get attention by suicide, by all means… Lie. Do what you do…. But leave him alone.
[3:14:50 PM] ashes: He is just waiting to make it legal.
[3:14:55 PM] ashes: Don’t go there.
[3:15:31 PM] ashes: Be good to yourself.
[3:16:49 PM] ashes: Oh, and we never broke up.
[3:16:54 PM] ashes: You got that wrong.
[3:17:11 PM] ashes: We’ve been good friends for a year, then started dating.
[3:17:29 PM] ashes: Get your facts straight before you try to write.
[3:17:47 PM] ashes: If you want to apologize, be my guest.
[3:17:57 PM] ashes: But know that I don’t give third chances.
[3:19:45 PM] ashes: Oh, and those photos cannot be posted without my permission. I don’t give you permission. The joys of having a great legal team.
[3:20:39 PM] ashes: He was right about you.
[3:20:44 PM] ashes: At least I tried.
[3:21:46 PM] ashes: I don’t know how you sleep at night. Keep burning bridges and see where it gets you. Goodbye, Meredith. I hope I don’t see you in court.
And people think I’m crazy???Seriously???
Then another one on a later date:
[12/8/2014 12:33:24 PM] ashes: Haha… Ok, so you’re typing into the void. He’s in Peru and has no service… that’s why he isn’t tweeting.
[12/8/2014 12:33:33 PM] ashes: now, you want “proof” right?
[12/8/2014 12:34:00 PM] ashes: Do you want to see photos of him that are meant for my eyes only? Do you want to see us together, in love, happy?
[12/8/2014 12:34:07 PM] ashes: Do you want to know what he’s said about you?
[12/8/2014 12:34:19 PM] ashes:
[12/8/2014 12:34:34 PM] ashes: Rubbing my feet after a long walk.
[12/8/2014 12:34:45 PM] ashes:
[12/8/2014 12:34:49 PM] ashes: What I get to wake up to.
[12/8/2014 12:35:15 PM] ashes: I’d send you a photo of where we live, but you’re a goddamn stalker.
[12/8/2014 12:35:56 PM] ashes: So, cope however you want. Believe it’s a lie. I can send you fucking voicemails!
[12/8/2014 12:36:03 PM] ashes: But here’s the thing…
[12/8/2014 12:36:17 PM] ashes: I contacted you to help you. I wanted you to get a safe place to live and a steady job.
[12/8/2014 12:36:33 PM] ashes: I was hoping you would make a life for yourself and find some self-confidence.
[12/8/2014 12:36:41 PM] ashes: But you’re just a mean person. That’s it.
[12/8/2014 12:36:59 PM] ashes: If i had lied to you about our relationship, this all would have been fine.
[12/8/2014 12:37:11 PM] ashes: you would have been totally fine taking my money
[12/8/2014 12:37:32 PM] ashes: YOU NEED HELP
[12/8/2014 12:38:10 PM] ashes: Please… get some help. You’re life is just going nowhere.
[12/8/2014 12:38:23 PM] ashes: I mean, I could get you set up with an agent if that’s what you want to do
[12/8/2014 12:38:41 PM] ashes: But I will not allow you to disrespect either of us.
[12/8/2014 12:39:07 PM] ashes: So, if you want to stay in a hostel and spend your money on drugs… go ahead.
[12/8/2014 12:39:23 PM] ashes: if you want to get into a house and get a steady job… I can help you.
[12/8/2014 12:39:52 PM] ashes: but I will not ever EVER allow you to walk all over me, or Dominic for that matter.
[12/8/2014 12:40:13 PM] ashes: do you need a better one of us?
[12/8/2014 12:40:21 PM] ashes:
[12/8/2014 12:41:15 PM] ashes: I’m not sending any photos of him that you’re just going to get off to.
[12/8/2014 12:41:26 PM] ashes:
[12/8/2014 12:42:15 PM] ashes: and again.. not sending you a photo of either of us in our home. You’ve already crossed so many lines….
[12/8/2014 12:42:22 PM] ashes: not happening.
[12/8/2014 12:42:59 PM] ashes: This is what’s going to happen… if you “bump into” him, the cops will arrest you. They will hold you in jail until the restraining order is filed.
[12/8/2014 12:43:12 PM] ashes: Two restraining orders…
[12/8/2014 12:43:19 PM] ashes: The lawyers have SO MUCH stuff on you..
[12/8/2014 12:43:33 PM] ashes: those twitter girls have collected everything about you.
[12/8/2014 12:43:43 PM] ashes: There is plenty to make a case about your mental state
[12/8/2014 12:43:53 PM] ashes: remember that email you sent “warmhappycat”?
[12/8/2014 12:44:08 PM] ashes: in which you told her most everything?
[12/8/2014 12:44:28 PM] ashes: all the way down to every court record.
[12/8/2014 12:44:37 PM] ashes: So please….
[12/8/2014 12:44:47 PM] ashes: you have had a shitty life to say the least
[12/8/2014 12:45:07 PM] ashes: make it better… contribute. stop harming people.
[12/8/2014 12:45:22 PM] ashes: make your children proud, and show your parents you can do it.
[12/8/2014 12:45:52 PM] ashes: but please… stop being so aggressive. if you want to battle with me, I will fight right back. I don’t take shit like that from ANYONE.
[12/8/2014 12:46:27 PM] ashes: He loves me. He loves my daughter. We are happy.
[12/8/2014 12:47:00 PM] ashes: Our friendship is strong, and our love is stronger than anything in the world. There is no way you could ever come between us.
[12/8/2014 12:47:13 PM] ashes: you can try, but it just gives us more to send to the lawyer.
[12/8/2014 12:47:47 PM] ashes: And STOP posting these videos of you high off your ass…
[12/8/2014 12:47:57 PM] ashes: If you seriously want work, DELETE them.
[12/8/2014 12:48:15 PM] ashes: no casting director would ever look at those and cast you.
[12/8/2014 12:48:23 PM] ashes: take pride in yourself.
[12/8/2014 12:49:18 PM] ashes: I am the closest you will ever get to him…. I was advised not to talk to you.
[12/8/2014 12:49:35 PM] ashes: But i’ve dealt with more than you know, and i have way too much fucking empathy.
[12/8/2014 12:50:13 PM] ashes: So now it’s up to you. Respect me, respect our choices, or get the fuck out.
[12/8/2014 12:50:41 PM] ashes: I don’t want to see you get hurt. really.
[12/8/2014 12:51:21 PM] ashes: … and unfortunately that’s where this is leading. Your behavior is just horrid. You are acting out like a 15 year old girl.
[12/8/2014 12:51:26 PM] ashes: and I know you’ve gone through abuse…
[12/8/2014 12:51:33 PM] ashes: and I’m so sorry.
[12/8/2014 12:51:52 PM] ashes: I’ve been abused. I’ve been raped. I’ve had terrible shit happen… Nothing at all that compares to you though…
[12/8/2014 12:52:15 PM] ashes: The fact that you’ve survived everything you’ve gone through just shows how strong and powerful you are!
[12/8/2014 12:52:30 PM] ashes: But I will protect my family to the death.
[12/8/2014 12:53:01 PM] ashes: I am not in control of anything Dominic says or does. He is his own person and he makes his own choices.
[12/8/2014 12:54:30 PM] ashes: I met him before I ever saw LOTR or lost, or anything else that he’s worked on. I respect his career and I love his passion. But again… first and foremost he is my best friend and the love of my life. He is so in love with my daughter and our little family may be weird, but we love it.
[12/8/2014 12:55:12 PM] ashes: He loves what I do, and he loves that i’m 100% independent. He also loves that I trust him enough to take the lead.
[12/8/2014 12:55:32 PM] ashes: We are in a very good spot… and that’s because we were great friends before we became lovers.
[12/8/2014 12:55:53 PM] ashes: You keep saying you love the man and not the actor..
[12/8/2014 12:56:02 PM] ashes: if that’s true…. act like it.
[12/8/2014 12:56:22 PM] ashes: This is my final attempt, Meredith.
[12/8/2014 12:57:24 PM] ashes: I have gotten so miserably frustrated with you, but I have nothing but love for you in my heart. I pray for you and I really hope you have the strength to power through and start making some changes.
[12/8/2014 12:57:59 PM] ashes: If you need anything, you know how to reach me.
[12/8/2014 12:58:08 PM] ashes: I wish we could talk on the phone.
[12/8/2014 12:58:27 PM] ashes: but at the same time, I don’t want to disrespect his feelings.
[12/8/2014 12:59:05 PM] ashes: He had had enough of this. It has gone on for far too long…
[12/8/2014 1:00:23 PM] ashes: I’m going against his wishes to help you.
[12/8/2014 1:00:51 PM] ashes: Think about it.
[12/8/2014 1:01:12 PM] ashes: I’ve got to get back to work.
[12/8/2014 1:01:22 PM] ashes: please handle this like an adult.
[12/8/2014 1:01:34 PM] ashes: I have faith you’ll do the right thing.
[12/8/2014 1:01:40 PM] ashes: sending love.
[12/8/2014 1:02:02 PM] ashes: (by the way.. .your children are so beautiful… you are a great mom)
Did you notice the date she sent it on??? Why would she not want to be with “her man” on his freakin’ birthday??? DUH!!!!
Please don’t forget to give me your feedback on this. I’ve been trying to block and report Evelien for the past two years. I hope that now you can all see why…